# Adjustable Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Harness Kit Lavender ## What it is The Adjustable Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Harness Kit Lavender is a Tantus wellness product. Positioned for for-him and for-her. Current price: $84.99 (retail value $93.99). In stock. ## Emma's take The starter kit that actually grows with you. Ready to take the driver's seat? This beginner-friendly kit comes with everything you need to explore new territories with confidence *(and a lovely lavender harness that's way cuter than your average utility belt)*. Two perfectly graduated silicone companions let you start small and work your way up—think of it as pleasure with training wheels, minus the wobbly embarrassment. The adjustable harness hugs curves up to 60 inches and features a sneaky little pocket for the included bullet vibe, because why should your partner have all the fun? Machine washable means less cleanup, more comeback performances. This isn't just a strap-on kit—it's your license to drive in the carpool lane of intimacy. - **Two sizes included** so you can graduate at your own pace *(no rush, no judgment)* - **Built-in bullet pocket** keeps the wearer buzzing with excitement too - **Machine washable harness** because nobody has time for complicated cleanup routines - **Adjustable fit** accommodates hips up to 60 inches comfortably - **Extra O-ring included** for when you're ready to level up your toy collection - **Premium silicone construction** that's body-safe and built to last through many adventures - **Beginner-friendly design** takes the guesswork out of getting started - **Pretty lavender color** proves functional can still be fabulous ## Works for him Plot twist: this one's not technically for your anatomy, but hear us out. There's something incredibly attractive about a partner who's **confident enough to explore new dynamics** together. Plus, watching someone you care about discover their power? That's its own kind of thrill. *And hey*, that bullet vibe situation means everyone's having a good time. Sometimes the best pleasure comes from being part of someone else's adventure. Curious what it feels like to cheer from the sidelines? ## Works for her Ready to take the lead? This **beginner-friendly harness kit** puts you in complete control of the experience. With two different sizes included, you can start small and work your way up *(or stay exactly where you're comfortable)*. The adjustable harness fits curves up to 60 inches, and that sneaky little bullet vibrator nestled in front means **you get to feel incredible too**. Machine-washable because life gets messy in the best ways. What kind of confidence might bloom when you're the one calling the shots? ## Specifications - Material: 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone - Harness Size: Fits up to 60" hips - Silk Small: 4.25" × 0.8" diameter - Silk Medium: 5.5" × 1" diameter - Included O-rings: 1.48" and 1.53" - Includes: Bullet vibrator with front pocket - Weight: 15 oz - Care: Machine washable (delicates bag) or hand wash - Hypoallergenic, boilable, bleachable, dishwasher safe ## What's in the box - 1x adjustable harness (lavender) - 1x Silk Small dildo (4.25" x 0.8") - 1x Silk Medium dildo (5.5" x 1") - 2x O-rings (1.48" and 1.53") - 1x bullet vibrator ## Care instructions - Wash with mild soap and warm water after each use. - Machine wash on delicates or hand wash the harness itself. - Air-dry completely before storing in the included pouch. - Use water-based lube with the included silicone toys. - Boil or bleach periodically to deep clean and sanitize. --- Canonical: https://xdipx.com/products/bend-over-beginner-strap-on-harness-kit-lavender Last updated: 2026-07-21 xdipx.com is an editorially curated sexual wellness storefront. Support: hello@xdipx.com. Billing descriptor: XDIPX. ## Frequently asked questions ## What does this harness kit include? This starter kit comes with an adjustable harness, two silicone dildos (small and medium), two O-rings for different toy sizes, and a bullet vibrator that fits in the front pocket for extra stimulation. ## What hip sizes does this harness fit? The harness adjusts to fit hips up to 60 inches. The multiple adjustment points let you find your perfect fit for comfort and security during play. ## How do I use the included bullet vibrator? The bullet vibrator slides into a special front pocket on the harness, positioning it perfectly for clitoral stimulation while you play. It adds an extra layer of pleasure for the wearer. ## Can I swap out the included toys for different ones? Absolutely! The kit includes two O-ring sizes, and you can use any compatible dildo or toy that fits. This harness truly grows with your exploration and preferences. ## Is this material body-safe and hypoallergenic? Yes, the dildos are made from 100% ultra-premium silicone that's completely body-safe, phthalate-free, and hypoallergenic. Perfect for sensitive skin and worry-free play. ## Is it safe to share this harness with a partner? Since the silicone toys are boilable and bleachable, you can fully sanitize them between partners. For extra safety, you can always use condoms over the toys when sharing. ## Which lubes work best with this kit? Use water-based lube with the silicone toys to protect the material. The ultra-premium silicone is compatible with most quality water-based formulas for smooth, comfortable play.