# 4-Way Adjustable Bend Over Intermediate Strap-On Harness Kit

## What it is

The 4-Way Adjustable Bend Over Intermediate Strap-On Harness Kit is a Tantus wellness product. Positioned for for-him and for-her. Current price: $62.99 (retail value $106.00). In stock.

## Emma's take

The kit that grows with you. Comfort, versatility, pleasure.

Ready to graduate from the kiddie pool? This gorgeous lavender kit is like getting your driver's license for the pleasure highway — complete with training wheels *(we mean that in the best way)*. With two perfectly-sized options and a vibrating harness that keeps everyone happy, it's basically the Swiss Army knife of intimacy adventures.

The best part? Everything comes in a discreet bag because we know you're not trying to scandalize your neighbors. **Tantus knows what they're doing** — this isn't their first rodeo, and it shows in every thoughtful detail. From beginner-friendly to "oh my" in one beautiful package.

- Two different sizes so you can find your perfect fit *(no awkward guessing games)*

- Built-in vibrator pocket because why should only one person have all the fun?

- Adjustable harness that actually stays put during the action

- Machine washable fabric — because life's too short for hand-washing everything

- Body-safe silicone that's dishwasher safe *(your secret's safe with us)*

- Comes with extra O-ring for when you're ready to level up

- Fits hips up to 60" comfortably — no squeezing into tiny sizes here

- Discreet storage bag keeps everything tidy and travel-ready

- That dreamy lavender color that looks good enough to leave out *(but you probably shouldn't)*

## Works for him

Here's your chance to experience pleasure from an entirely new perspective — **literally**. This isn't just about her taking control *(though that's pretty incredible)*; it's about discovering sensations you never knew existed. The two different sizes mean you can explore gradually, and that front-facing bullet? Pure genius for keeping things interesting for both of you. **Ready to flip the script on everything you thought you knew about pleasure?**

## Works for her

Ready to take the lead? This complete kit transforms intimate play with **everything you need** to explore new dimensions of pleasure. Two sizes let you start gentle and progress at your own pace, while the built-in bullet adds delicious vibrations for *your* enjoyment too. The adjustable harness fits like it was made for you, turning fantasy into reality with body-safe silicone that feels amazing. **What kind of confidence will this unlock for you?**

## Specifications

- Harness Size: Fits up to 60" hips
- Harness Material: Ultra-Premium Silicone
- Harness Features: 4-way adjustable, machine washable, vibrator pocket
- Dildo 1 (Silk Medium): 1" diameter x 5.5" length
- Dildo 2 (Silk Large): 1.5" diameter x 7" length
- Included O-Rings: 1.48" and 1.53" (interchangeable)
- Vibrator: One Touch Vibe (included, fits front channel)
- Harness Care: Machine wash in delicates bag or hand wash
- Dildo Care: Dishwasher safe, boilable, bleachable
- Material: 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone (hypoallergenic)

## What's in the box

- 1x 4-way adjustable harness
- 1x Silk Medium dildo
- 1x Silk Large dildo
- 1x 1.48" O-ring
- 1x 1.53" O-ring
- 1x bullet vibrator

## Care instructions

- Machine wash the harness in a delicates bag on cold, or hand wash gently.
- Hand wash or toss the dildos in the dishwasher, or boil them to sterilize.
- Charge the One Touch Vibe via USB and store it in the vibrator pocket.
- Use water-based lube with the silicone dildos and harness for best glide.
- Air-dry all pieces completely before tucking everything into storage.

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## Frequently asked questions

## What comes in this strap-on kit?

You get the 4-way adjustable harness, two different sized Silk dildos (medium and large), two interchangeable O-rings, and a One Touch vibrator that fits in the front pocket. Everything you need to start exploring together.

## What hip sizes does this harness fit?

The harness adjusts to fit up to 60 inch hips thanks to its four-way adjustability. The multiple adjustment points mean you can dial in a comfortable, secure fit for different body types.

## How do I switch between the different dildo sizes?

Just swap out the interchangeable O-rings to switch between the medium and large Silk dildos. The kit includes both ring sizes so you can experiment with what feels best for you and your partner.

## Can I use the vibrator on its own or with a partner?

Absolutely. The One Touch Vibe works great solo or tucks into the harness pocket for added stimulation during partnered play. It's designed to enhance whatever experience you're having.

## Is it safe to share this harness and dildos with a partner?

The dildos are completely safe to share after proper cleaning since they're non-porous silicone. You can boil them or run them through the dishwasher between partners. For extra peace of mind, condoms work great too.

## Is this material completely body-safe?

Yes, everything is made from 100% ultra-premium silicone, which is non-porous, phthalate-free, and completely body-safe. Tantus is known for their medical-grade materials.

## Which lubes work best with this silicone material?

Water-based lube is your best bet with the silicone harness and dildos. Avoid silicone-based lubes as they can break down the material over time and affect the surface texture.
