# Strap-On-Me Sublime Lingerie Harness XL Black

## What it is

The Strap-On-Me Sublime Lingerie Harness XL Black is a Lovely Planet wellness product. Positioned for for-him and for-her. Current price: $79.99. In stock.

## Emma's take

Lingerie that means business.

The Sublime is the harness you put on before they arrive. Fabric construction that sits flush against the body, moves with you rather than against you, and reads as lingerie right up until it doesn't. Known for a fit that flatters at rest and holds firm the moment you need it to. Designed for XL bodies with the same elegant silhouette as the rest of the Strap-On-Me line. Reviewers note the soft strap finish as the detail that makes extended wear feel entirely different from standard harness designs.

## Specifications

- Brand: Strap-On-Me by Lovely Planet
- Size: XL
- Color: Black
- Style: Lingerie harness
- Material: Fabric

## What's in the box

- 1x Sublime lingerie harness (XL, black)
- 1x O-ring

## Care instructions

- Hand wash in cool water with mild soap; air dry flat to hold the shape.
- Do not tumble dry or iron; heat breaks down fabric elasticity over time.
- Store unfolded or loosely rolled to prevent strap creasing.
- Wipe the o-ring area with a damp cloth between full washes.

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## Frequently asked questions

## What size dildo does the Sublime XL harness fit?

The Sublime ships with a standard o-ring. Most Strap-On-Me dildos and other harness-compatible toys with a flared base drop straight in. Check the o-ring diameter against your toy's base before ordering if you have something non-standard.

## How does the Sublime XL differ from a standard strap-on harness?

The Sublime is cut and finished to wear like lingerie. The fabric lies against the body rather than sitting on top of it, which means it flatters before the toy goes in and holds securely once it does. It is built specifically for XL bodies with that same elegant fit intention.

## What positions does the Sublime XL work best in?

The lingerie cut is most stable in standard partnered positions. The fabric design gives enough flexibility for varied angles, though very deep thrusting positions may benefit from checking the o-ring fit first so the toy stays aligned and seated.

## Can I wear the Sublime under clothing?

The fabric profile is slimmer than leather or nylon harnesses, but the XL silhouette will show visible lines under fitted clothing. It wears discreetly under looser layers and transitions naturally from wear to play without a full wardrobe change.

## How do I clean and care for the Sublime XL?

Hand wash in cool water with a gentle soap and air dry flat. Avoid machine drying or any heat source, which can weaken the fabric and elastic over time. Wipe the o-ring hardware down separately with a damp cloth.