# They Them Soft Silicone Dildo 5.5 Inches

## What it is

The They Them Soft Silicone Dildo 5.5 Inches is a Tantus wellness product. Positioned for for-him and for-her. Current price: $42.99 (retail value $48.00). In stock.

## Emma's take

Short, stout, and ready for anything you bring.

The They Them has a reputation for good reason. That girthy, full feeling arrives without the intimidation factor, and the soft silicone gives just enough to feel forgiving during intense play. The short, stout shape means you can really go for it without worrying about depth or angle. Reviewers reach for this one when they want something substantial that won't fight back when things get vigorous.

## Specifications

- Length: 5.5 inches insertable
- Material: Health-grade silicone, soft and flexible
- Base: Wide flared base for safe use
- Care: Top rack dishwasher-safe
- Features: Hypoallergenic, nonporous, odorless
- Compatibility: Strap-on harness ready

## What's in the box

- 1x They Them soft silicone dildo
- 1x care and safety information card

## Care instructions

- Wash with warm water and mild soap before and after each use
- Top rack dishwasher safe for thorough sanitization
- Use only water-based or silicone-hybrid lubricants
- Store in a cool, dry place away from other silicone toys
- Boil for 3-5 minutes to fully sterilize between partners

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## Frequently asked questions

## What makes this dildo different from firmer options?

The soft silicone gives during use, making it comfortable for vigorous thrusting while still providing that full, girthy sensation. It's especially great if you like to contract your muscles against the toy.

## Can I use this with a harness?

Absolutely. The wide flared base is designed to work with most standard strap-on harnesses, and the shorter length makes positioning easier for both partners.

## How do I clean this thoroughly?

Wash with warm water and mild soap, or toss it on the top rack of your dishwasher. You can even boil it for 3-5 minutes if you want to sterilize it completely.

## What kind of lube should I use?

Stick with water-based or high-quality silicone-hybrid lubes. Avoid cheap silicone lubes that might degrade the toy's material over time.

## Is this suitable for beginners?

The girth is substantial, so it's better suited for folks who are comfortable with fuller toys. The soft material does make it more forgiving than rigid options though.