4-Way Adjustable Bend Over Intermediate Strap-On Harness Kit
The kit that grows with you. Adjustable, versatile, ready.
How it feels
- Fit adjustment range
- Stability during use
- Material comfort
- O-ring options
- Quick on and off
- Receiver alignment
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What it does
FAQs / Q&A
What exactly comes in this kit?
The kit ships with the 4-way adjustable harness, a Silk Medium dildo (1 inch diameter, 5.5 inches long), a Silk Large dildo (1.5 inch diameter, 7 inches long), two O-rings (1.48 inch and 1.53 inch), and a One Touch bullet vibrator that tucks into the front harness pocket.
How do I know which dildo size to start with?
The Silk Medium is designed to ease you in, narrow and smooth with a gentle length. Once you and your partner are comfortable, the Silk Large adds noticeable girth and depth. Most people start with Medium for the first few sessions and graduate when it feels natural.
Can I use this harness with other dildos I already own?
Yes. The two included O-rings cover 1.48 inch and 1.53 inch toy bases. Any dildo with a flared base that fits one of those O-ring sizes will mount securely. Tantus also sells additional O-ring sizes if you want to expand your options further.
How do I clean the harness and toys after use?
Remove the bullet vibe first, then machine wash the harness in a delicates bag with mild detergent and hang dry. The silicone dildos and O-rings are dishwasher safe, boilable, and bleachable for full sanitizing. Hand washing with mild soap and warm water works just as well.
What lube is safe to use with the silicone dildos?
Water-based lube is the right choice here. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade the surface of silicone toys over time, so stick to water-based formulas to keep both dildos feeling smooth session after session.
Will this harness fit my body?
The 4-way adjustable straps fit hips up to 60 inches, which covers a wide range of bodies. The velvet exterior is soft against skin and the adjustment system lets you dial in a secure, comfortable fit rather than settling for close enough.
Care Instructions
- Machine wash the harness in a delicates bag with mild detergent, then hang dry completely.
- Remove the bullet vibe before washing the harness every time.
- Boil or run the silicone dildos and O-rings through the dishwasher for full sanitizing.
- Use water-based lube only with the silicone dildos to preserve the material.
- Store everything dry; moisture trapped in the harness fabric shortens its life.
In the box
- 1x 4-way adjustable velvet harness
- 1x Silk Medium dildo (1 inch x 5.5 inches)
- 1x Silk Large dildo (1.5 inches x 7 inches)
- 1x 1.48 inch O-ring
- 1x 1.53 inch O-ring
- 1x One Touch bullet vibrator
Specs
- Harness Material: Velvet exterior with ultra-premium silicone construction
- Harness Fit: Up to 60 inches hips, 4-way adjustable straps
- Silk Medium Dildo: 1 inch diameter x 5.5 inches length
- Silk Large Dildo: 1.5 inch diameter x 7 inches length
- O-Rings Included: 1.48 inch and 1.53 inch diameter
- Vibrator: One Touch Vibe, fits front harness pocket
- Dildo Material: 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone, hypoallergenic
- Dildo Care: Dishwasher safe, boilable, bleachable
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