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What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide To Sex And Safety
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What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide To Sex And Safety

The modern woman's guide to navigating sexuality without shame.

$18.99

How it feels

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What it does

This isn't your typical wellness book — it's the honest conversation about sexuality that someone should have had with you years ago. Jaclyn Friedman cuts through cultural mixed messages to help you separate fear from fact and build your own healthy relationship with intimacy. The interactive format means you're not just reading about change, you're actively working toward it through quizzes and exercises that actually make sense.

FAQs / Q&A

  • Is this book appropriate for younger readers?

    The book is written for young women navigating modern sexual culture, with mature themes handled in an educational, empowering way. It's best suited for readers ready for frank discussions about sexuality and safety.

  • Does this include practical exercises I can actually use?

    Absolutely. The book includes revealing quizzes, creative exercises, and interactive elements designed to help you actively explore and define your own sexual identity rather than just reading about it.

  • How does this approach differ from other sexuality guides?

    Friedman focuses specifically on cutting through cultural mixed messages and shame to help readers separate fear from fact. It's less about technique and more about building a healthy, informed relationship with your own sexuality.

  • Can I read this discreetly?

    The cover clearly indicates the book's focus on sexuality and safety, so it's not designed to be completely anonymous. However, it reads as an empowering wellness guide rather than explicit content.

  • Is this only for single people or does it help with relationships too?

    The book covers both individual sexual identity development and communication skills for talking about sexuality with partners, family, and friends. It's valuable whether you're single or in a relationship.

Care Instructions

  • Store in a discreet spot where you can reference it easily.
  • Perfect for journaling alongside — the exercises work best when you write things out.

In the box

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Specs

  • Author: Jaclyn Friedman, co-editor of Yes Means Yes
  • Format: Interactive guide with quizzes and exercises
  • Focus: Sexual identity, safety, and communication
  • Approach: Shame-free, fact-based advice
  • Content: Revealing quizzes, creative exercises, reality-based advice

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  • Secure Checkout

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  • Quickie 2-3 day delivery

    Comes fast, not pre-maturely

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    You use, you keep.

  • Always Genuine

    No shitty knock-offs

  • Body Safe Materials

    Safety for your business is our business

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