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Attractive woman in lingerie is writing in a journal on her bed with a pen. She is in her bed room at golden hour and the sun is shining on her beautiful flowing blonde hair. She has long legs and a happy flushed look on her face. She is laying on her stomach facing the camera at about a 30-45 degree angle with a pleased look on her face. She has her knees bent up and you can see her cleavage. Her black notebook is open on the bed and it's in contrast to her light colored sheets. All of the colors are complimentary and the room is a romantic modern style. She is in her early 30s. Add a man in the scene that is kneeling near the far corner of the bed with his hand on hers. She is looking back at him romantically. The man is only wearing a towel and looks like he's just out of the shower. He's handsome and fit with defined muscles.
Guides9 min

How Do Couples Use a Vibrator Together?

Three ways it actually works: worn between you during penetration, worn as a ring, or held in a hand. How to pick your first one, where lube fits, and what to say before you start.

EmmaJul 29
Date Night water-based lubricant bottle standing bold on sunlit white bedding with a hand reaching for it, the couples' first pick in a guide comparing water-based, silicone, and hybrid lube.
Guides10 min

Which Lube Is Best for Couples?

Water based, silicone, or hybrid: which lube actually suits two people. How to match a bottle to your session length, your condoms, and your toys, plus what to check on the label.

EmmaJul 27
Sliquid Naturals H2O water-based lubricant standing boldly against a soft coral backdrop, the water-based pick in a water-versus-silicone-versus-hybrid lube comparison.
Guides6 min

How Do You Choose the Right Lube for You?

A friendly guide to choosing lube by feel and body: what sets water-based, silicone, and hybrid apart, which one suits your skin, your toys, and your partner, and how to read the label with confidence.

EmmaJul 22
Sliquid Naturals H2O water-based lubricant bottle standing upright in warm golden daylight, the post's recommended pick for pairing lube with sex toys
Guides5 min

What Lube Should You Use With Your Sex Toys?

The safest all-around answer is water-based lube. It works with every toy material and every condom. Silicone lasts longer but can damage silicone toys, and oil-based belongs nowhere near latex. Here is how to match lube to what you own.

EmmaJul 20
A single curved silicone vibrator with an upward-hooked tip, standing on a bright coral background.
Guides4 min

How Do You Choose a G-Spot Vibrator?

Choosing a G-spot vibrator comes down to the curve, the firmness, and how the motor feels once it arrives. Here is how to read those three, plus honest in-stock picks.

EmmaJul 15
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